Observer forum: Letters to editor:
(Log in info) These are letters to the editor of the Charlotte Observer in response to Avis O. Gachet’s column about how men have no right to voice their opinion on abortion…
Abortion: This man isn’t holding his tongue
The writer is senior pastor, Uptown Christ Covenant Church. In response to “Men, keep quiet on abortion” (Jan. 28 Viewpoint):
No, Avis O. Gachet, I will not be quiet about abortions, even though I am a man. I will not be quiet about genocide in Sudan, even though I am a U.S. citizen. I will not be quiet about injustice to the poor, even though I am relatively well off. I will not be quiet about bigotry against blacks, even though I am white.
These are human issues, and as a human being, whether rich or poor, black or white, male or female, I have a stake and a say in all of them.
Tom Hawkes
Charlotte
Pastor Tom put it more succinctly than I did. It’s hard to argue with his point.
Flawed thinking works against sound idea
Although I share Avis O. Gachet’s belief that a woman should be able to choose to have an abortion, I was dismayed by the thrust of her seriously wrongheaded column.
Should we also insist that people who don’t own guns keep quiet about gun control? Should people not serving in the Armed Forces keep quiet about our military deployments? If you aren’t married, should you keep quiet about gay marriage? And if you don’t own an SUV….
I value the laws that protect women’s reproductive choices. But I also value the laws that protect everyone’s rights to form opinions and to express them.
David H. Roberson
Iron Station
While I don’t agree with his viewpoints on abortion again it’s hard to argue with his logic.
When men DO care, why stymie them?
For decades we’ve asked men to take a larger role in child-rearing (attending the delivery room as coaches, changing diapers, feeding, etc.), but now we should discourage them from even expressing their opinion on the crucial issue of abortion? When will we recognize we can’t have it both ways? If a woman chooses to have her child, the man is forced to pay child support, but should she choose to abort, he has no say so whatever.
Marjorie Carol Hall
Stanley
Read that last sentence again. That’s the best point I’ve seen yet. What it took me a couple hundred words to say Ms. Hall sums it up in one sentence.
Now let’s hear from the wingnuts…
Gachet gets it right: Butt out, everybody
I was thrilled to see Avis Gachet’s column. How can a man — who will never know what it is like to carry a child for nine months, to give birth, to nearly always be the primary caretaker — even be allowed to voice his opinion on the subject? It’s bad enough for other women to have such audacity!
Cindy Jorett
Charlotte
Yeesh. By that logic we shouldn’t tell anyone who wants to drink paint that it might be bad for them.
And finally…
Abortion column makes powerful case
Ms. Gachet’s beautifully reasoned argument for a woman’s right to choose was the most compelling statement on any side of the abortion issue we have seen in the Observer.
Mary and Anthony Allou
Charlotte
Notice the woman’s name is signed first. I really wonder if the husband had anything to do with this letter. If so I have two words for him. “Meow” and “wha-pow”.
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